Happiness and fulfilment is determined by meeting your goals.
Meeting your goals (in any negotiation) is a about preparation, defining your goals and making clever choices.
It is not only more fun to do this together, but it is also very helpful to getting feedback and ideas from other professionals unrelated to your success.
All our SparringClub Gold and Silver members to go through each beginning of the year, next time on January 10th 2025, 15-19 hrs. If you haven´t put your own goals on the top of your priority list, or haven´t even thought about them much, block the time in your calendar and reserve yourself a spot.
Negotiation is only a means to getting closer to our objectives. Strengthening our relationships is an important “side-effect”.
The facts are all on the table… the client is not uninterested… but what are you doing now to have her sign? How can the deal be closed?
This was one of the main cases in Round #34 each and every Sparrer had a chance to try his luck on. The results were mixed. Yes, it is possible, but not at every time and for everyone.
Main take-aways from the sales case:
The “sale” needs to have been prepared and introduced carefully. This starts with the setting of the conversation. “Begging” and “Praying” body positions put you in a disadvantage you can hardly overcome later.
We all had to agree in Sparring Round #34: “hard selling” is completely self-defeating these days. You don´t sell – you let buy.
As always, there were other cases, too. Like conducting clandestine strategic negotiations: how do I show members of our association that the board is not really doing its job.
Last not least there was a stint into political negotiations, proving that negotiations in private situations, in particular fathers vs. mothers, can be taxing. Finding the right focus is paramount here.
Also, I had the pleasure of honoring one of our Sparrers – Christian received the sought-after “comeon-watch” and are granted special privileges in the Negotiation Sparring Alumni circle.
But I am not revealing any more here online.
Come to our next Sparring Round on Friday, October 13th (8.45 – 16.30 hrs.) and experience this exclusive Negotiation Case training for yourself – I´d love to model your case and/or have you try your ideas “life” with us.
The video analyses are available for all pro members (with their own video) again at the sparring analyses in http://academy.comeon.institute.
Recommendation:To avoid the disappointment of not getting a place, please register earlier for the next round.
Strategic attitude and negotiation skillsdetermine relationships, careers, and even the overall success of your life to a very special degree. The SparringClub is about setting ambitious goals and consistently achieving the best possible negotiation success with the Coaching support.
There are only a few places available in the exclusive program, and I personally select participants with a view to mutual learning success. The SparringClub consists of a select group of executives, influencers and self-employed who want to exchange ideas at a top level and perfect their negotiating skills, not only on the strategic, but also on the practical day-to-day level.
The number of participants is deliberately limited to 10 and focused on the right target group in order to ensure the intimacy and the exclusivity of the small group. In the club, strategies, goals and techniques are optimized, tried out and trained in a multi-facetted Coaching program.
If you are interested in becoming a Master Negotiator, inquire with me directly, sign up and let’s achieve the best negotiation results for you!
One of the favorite activities of my year is coming up: Reviewing the old and preparing the new.
What has changed? What did I achieve? Where am I coming from and how does this impact my future?
As an entrepreneur, my starting point this year will again be the development of my business. As Austrian business we are obliged to keeping our accounting records 7 years. This means, we can review and completely close, and burn old, outdated records.
Of course, the beauty is not only to get rid of old things, but looking through them, reminiscing and reliving past successes. While I am doing this, I am finding that it was a pretty successful year regarding book sales! I will love to set the invoices on fire, however I would like to stay in contact with my readers of that time. How can I best manage that? Maybe I should reach out via LinkedIN?
Did you know that 7 years timeframe also coincides with another body related time frame? It takes about 7 years for all of the cells in your body to be replaced by other cells. This means, in short, that your body now really is different in every aspect than the one you had 7 years ago. You are, physically speaking, a completely different person (Disclaimer: not exactly so, but it is a good model to work on, find more here).
After going through my review of the distant, I´ll have a look into what´s been achieved last year. As some of you probably know, my kids and I have published a new book together, the Little Free Thinker.
You want to to your Review-Outlook-Vision together with me?
Then consider joining my workshop that has become a landmark for my Sparring friends and me: Review – Outlook – Vision on January 15th. In the exclusive group we talk about our plans and set targets for the coming year. Join us, if you´d like to!
I wish you a wonderful New Year, and that it will bring you closer to your dreams,
Do you want to ensure reaching your objectives in upcoming negotiations?
How about an independent second opinion on your strategy? Somebody to discuss tactics with confidentially? Heck, you can even rehearse upcoming sensitive phases of your negotiation (under whatever name it is conducted) and try out different options!
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